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Stimulation is important for brain development – of that we are sure.

Healthy development in the early years provides the building blocks for educational achievement, economic productivity, responsible citizenship, lifelong health, strong communities, and successful parenting of the next generation.

The architecture of your baby’s developing brain

The connections (synapses) that are made between brain cells are vital for development. For example a connection in the language part of the brain will result in understanding of speech or in speech itself as illustrated in a video by the Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University 

One of the most essential experiences in shaping the architecture of the developing brain is “serve and return” interaction between children and significant adults in their lives. Young children naturally reach out for interaction through babbling, facial expressions, and gestures, and adults respond with the same kind of vocalizing and gesturing back at them. This back-and-forth process is fundamental to the wiring of the brain, especially in the earliest years.

Your baby can only benefit optimally from stimulation when it is balanced, varied and meaningful and occurs at a time when he can best utilise the sensory input

Sense-able stimulation

As important as stimulation is for development; we do not want to over stimulate our babies either. It’s a fine balance that we need to aim for.

Here are a few guidelines on ‘sense-able’ stimulation:

  • Appropriate stimulation at opportune times of the day is beneficial for your baby’s development. Choose a time of day when your baby has been fed and is well rested. This may possibly be after the early morning nap. In a content state, your baby will best benefit from stimulation activities.
  • Overstimulation leads to fussiness, especially in young babies and is not beneficial. Watch your baby for signs of fussing and withdrawal and stimulate him only when he is calm and alert. While you are stimulating your baby he may start to show early signs of overstimulation, such as looking away, grizzling, high pitched shrieks and hand sucking. When you notice these subtle signals, stop the stimulation or remove your baby from the stimulus.
  • Don’t over schedule your baby, rushing him from one activity to the next. Choose baby classes with care and thought and schedule them so they don’t interfere with your baby’s sleep times. An overtired baby will not enjoy or benefit from stimulation. As a rule of thumb: babies under three months need no additional stimulation groups, as they are very susceptible to overstimulation. Babies under six months don’t need extra stimulation in the form of a group but moms benefit immensely from meeting other moms in a group and getting ideas for stimulation or massage at home. Between six and twelve months one group a week suffices.
  • Balance calming and stimulatory activities and link them to the time of day. Calm activities are important before sleep times. Keep stimulation for playtime during the day. When your baby shows signs of overstimulation, take him for a walk or put on soft calming music in this way the calming activity will also be beneficial to his development.

Aim for a fine balance when it comes to stimulating your baby

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Breastfeeding: Make feeding time a soothing time https://all4baby.co.za/newborns-0-6-months/feeding/570/breastfeeding-make-feeding-time-soothing-time/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=breastfeeding-make-feeding-time-soothing-time https://all4baby.co.za/newborns-0-6-months/feeding/570/breastfeeding-make-feeding-time-soothing-time/#comments Tue, 06 May 2014 09:04:02 +0000 https://all4baby.co.za/?p=570 Breastfeeding not only meets your baby's nutritional needs, but also meets your baby's sensory needs.

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By getting in tune with your baby’s senses, you can meet her needs and avoid unnecessary fussing and crying. You’ll also have a more relaxed baby, whose needs are met.

Keep your baby’s sensory environment the same each feeding time. Be cautious with any extra sensory input, like talking or touching.

She needs to keep all her attention on sucking, swallowing and breathing. Reciprocate your baby’s sensory signals. If she looks at you, return eye contact, but look away when she looks away to allow her ‘sensory space’ to focus on feeding.

From the moment you lift your baby into your arms and throughout the feed, each one of her senses will be stimulated.

Touch

Your touch as you place your baby into your arms and position her at your breast.

Hearing

Your baby’s sense of hearing will be stimulated by the sound of your voice and the rhythm of your heartbeat.

Sight

Sense of sight is stimulated as your baby focuses on your face and what is around her

Movement

As you lift your baby into the feeding position, her sense of movement is stimulated.

Smell

The smell of your milk and ‘mother space’ will stimulate your baby’s sense of smell.

Taste

Your baby’s sense of taste will be aroused depending on whether your milk is sweet or sour, hot or cold.

Interoception

The inner sensations of hunger, satiety and gas.

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Is your baby a cry baby? https://all4baby.co.za/newborns-0-6-months/newborn-basics/524/baby-cry-baby/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=baby-cry-baby https://all4baby.co.za/newborns-0-6-months/newborn-basics/524/baby-cry-baby/#comments Wed, 30 Apr 2014 09:48:33 +0000 https://all4baby.co.za/?p=524 Babies cry. A whole bunch. To have the expectation that your child will never cry is both unrealistic and unnatural.

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Most, if not all parents are cry sensitive

When I was a first time mom, I believed that babies only cried when they were close to dying. Hence the reason I was in a complete panic when I first took my baby home and he did not stop crying!

I soon learned that babies cry. Period. Studies suggest a newborn cries for an average of two to three hours each day!

All babies cry. They cry because they are wet, uncomfortable, unhappy or hungry and sometimes just because they are babies.

Crying baby equals a crying mom

If we know this, then why does our baby’s crying bothers us so much?

According to Dr. Aletha Solter in her book, Tears and Tantrums: “Children’s tears and tantrums elicit strong feelings in adults”. A survey in the US asked new mothers to describe their feelings when they were unable to quiet their crying infants.

The mothers explained feelings of exasperation, being afraid, anxiety, being unloving as well as feeling resentful and confused.

Biologically our heart rates and blood pressure increase when we hear our children cry. We have been designed to react when our children cry. It is intrinsic to the beautiful way in which we’ve been created.

Why does a baby’s crying bother us so much?

Because it is loud! Very loud! The Decibel (dB) is the unit used to measure the loudness of a sound. A baby’s cry is measured at around 110 dB.

To put this into perspective, an alarm clock is around 80dB and an ambulance siren is just slightly louder at 120dB! So when your baby cries it is like putting an alarm clock next to your ear.

Crying is a safety mechanism

The point is that babies cry. They cry loudly and they cry often. It is unnatural to “like” it when your baby cries, nobody does. However, there is such a thing as “good crying”.When your child is sad, he or she should be allowed to cry. Scientists believe that crying can be considered to be a safety mechanism because it aids the body in releasing stress-related toxins.

Furthermore, if your toddler plays with a dangerous object it is in the best interested of your child to remove that item from him. If you’ve ever dealt with a two year old, then you’d likely know that he will cry loudly when you do this. But should we then rather give him back this dangerous item because he becomes emotional about it? Of course not! You are the parent; you know how to protect your child.

The same can be said about sleep. Sometimes your child will protest because you do not allow him  to drink a bottle or breastfeed five times during the night, or because you force him to go to bed at seven pm.

We are parents for a reason, and we cannot always allow our children to have what they want, even though they might cry about it.

About the Author: Good Night is a child and baby sleep consultancy that specialises in helping parents with children who struggle to sleep soundly. For more information, visit: www.goodnightbaby.co.za
 

 

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The milestones of your little rocket scientist https://all4baby.co.za/newborns-0-6-months/month-by-month/355/milestones-little-rocket-scientist/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=milestones-little-rocket-scientist https://all4baby.co.za/newborns-0-6-months/month-by-month/355/milestones-little-rocket-scientist/#comments Mon, 14 Apr 2014 08:50:57 +0000 https://all4baby.co.za/?p=355 Did you know that 90 percent of your child's brain capacity develops before the age of five. Welcome to the rapidly expanding world of your child.

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Source: Priscilla Brown, http://www.early-childhood-education-degrees.com/milestones/

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