Build your child’s confidence with music lessons

Children today are under so much pressure to compete and succeed: in the classroom, on the sports field and in their other extra-curricular activities. But one of the many wonderful things about music is that it’s not competitive.

Sure, there are Eisteddfods and music exams, but learning an instrument introduces a child into a world where they can be accepted and celebrated for who they are.

A form of mediation that helps focus and quieten the mind

Playing an instrument can be a wonderful form of meditation. To progress, a learner has to practise short phrases over and over until they start to sound musical. This becomes like reciting a mantra and helps to focus and quieten the mind. It brings calm and relaxation in a way that zoning out in front of the TV doesn’t.

Playing in a band teaches children teamwork

When children play together in a band, it teaches them a form of teamwork that they don’t get from sports. It’s not about beating anyone; it is only about how your individuality fits in with other people’s.

It also builds self-confidence in many children. In my years of teaching music, I’ve seen so many children come out of their shells in the band room.

Appreciation for music

And then there’s the insight into and appreciation for music that learning an instrument gives. Children develop deeper ways to listen to music and learn to hear how individual parts fit together to make a beautiful whole. This is what brings more joy to life.

If you want your child to fall in love with music, try these tips

1. Expose your children to a variety of music styles from a young age.
2. Kindermusiek (www.kindermusiek.co.za) is a great way to introduce a child to music. They offer music classes for toddlers.
3. Find a music teacher who inspires your child. Ask at music shops and schools for the contact details of teachers in your area. Communicate with the teacher on your child’s progress.
4. It’s very important to work out a practice routine for your child. Just ten minutes a day, five days a week will result in some progress (obviously the more they practise, the more they’ll progress). You can’t “cram” music – practising only once a week for two hours won’t work nearly as well as regular practice sessions.
5. Expose your children to live music. The power of a live orchestra or the energy of a great jazz or rock band can capture a child’s imagination.
6. Experimentation on an instrument is not only fun but part of learning. If a child is also doing their homework, let them make a noise and explore their musical instrument.
7. Music requires discipline but that doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be fun. If your child hates music lessons, perhaps you need to try another teacher or instrument.

About the Author: Graeme Sacks is a composer, guitarist, educator and producer of children’s music. His SAMA-winning music for kids can be found here: www.africantreehouse.com.

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